{"id":77249,"date":"2019-12-07T13:15:59","date_gmt":"2019-12-07T11:15:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/moneyminority.com\/?p=77249"},"modified":"2020-03-26T17:18:00","modified_gmt":"2020-03-26T15:18:00","slug":"turning-down-my-dream-for-a-purpose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/en\/turning-down-my-dream-for-a-purpose\/","title":{"rendered":"Why I Turned Down a Dream (Pilot) to Follow a Purpose (Freedom)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>It was a Monday night and I was mindlessly scrolling through my Instagram Stories like every self respecting 28 year old should.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everything was going smoothly until I came up to something that struck me hard, like a punch straight in the stomach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was a story, uploaded by one of my best pals Markos Gkogkos, that depicted (in a pretty cringy way &#8211; Sorry Markos) the following message:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>&#8220;In a month the decade is changing, no more excuses, take that risk!&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pretty huge, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are not talking about a year, we are talking about a whole decade, a DECADE!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If that&#8217;s not enough to shake you into taking the risks you always wanted to take, what will?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If not now? When?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despite the &#8220;shallowness&#8221; of this photo, it made me realize that I, indeed, took some heavy risks and changed some major things in my life in 2019!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let me explain myself&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Is it just me or every young boy dreams of becoming a pilot?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" src=\"http:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Is-it-just-me-or-every-young-boy-dreams-of-becoming-a-pilot.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-77254\" srcset=\"https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Is-it-just-me-or-every-young-boy-dreams-of-becoming-a-pilot.jpg 900w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Is-it-just-me-or-every-young-boy-dreams-of-becoming-a-pilot-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Is-it-just-me-or-every-young-boy-dreams-of-becoming-a-pilot-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Is-it-just-me-or-every-young-boy-dreams-of-becoming-a-pilot-270x180.jpg 270w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Is-it-just-me-or-every-young-boy-dreams-of-becoming-a-pilot-370x247.jpg 370w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Since I was a young boy I remember myself admiring pilots.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can&#8217;t exactly recall why&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe I was fascinated by the freedom that flying in the sky can provide&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe it was the feeling that you had control of a 100 ton metal machine in the tip of your hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or maybe it was the subtle prompts of my mother, constantly buying aviation-related stuff for me&#8230; &#8211; from airplane toys to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gamespot.com\/reviews\/microsoft-flight-simulator-2000-review\/1900-2542657\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Microsoft Flight Simulator 2000<\/a> (although my father was guiltier for devoting many more hours playing that) &#8211;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I was getting older, the thought of, actually becoming a pilot never matured inside me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It remained a <strong>romantic childhood dream<\/strong> that I couldn&#8217;t afford anyway.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>*Becoming a Commercial Pilot (getting your Commercial Pilots License <strong>(CPL)<\/strong> and your Aircraft Type Rating) nowadays will cost you around<strong> 80.000\u20ac<\/strong> in Greece with no job guarantee afterward. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I got into the Digital Marketing field and, long story short, I found myself as the head of marketing at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.agnotis.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Agnotis<\/strong><\/a> (a huge success startup story from Greece selling premium design baby diapers and cosmetics with a subscription model via the internet).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And life goes by casually&#8230; <strong>until I saw it!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The biggest national flag airline carrier in Greece is proceeding with <a href=\"https:\/\/greece.greekreporter.com\/2018\/03\/29\/aegean-airlines-in-biggest-private-investment-in-greece\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the &#8220;biggest private investment&#8221; of the recent years in the country.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The carrier announced an order of 42 aircrafts (Airbus 320 neo type) worth of 4 billion \u20ac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Under the umbrella of this huge investment, there was also something else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>100 scholarships for aspiring pilots<\/strong> to fulfill the surplus demand for flying personnel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As an act of pure impulse, I signed up and filled their lead form!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Immediately after, I was part of the candidate filtering procedure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It started with an <strong>interview<\/strong>, continued with the<strong> COMPASS Pilot Aptitude Test<\/strong> and ended with the <strong>Medical 1 Examination<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After successfully passing everything, one fine morning my phone rang:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><em>&#8220;<\/em><em style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Mr. Stergiou, Congratulations! <\/em><br><em>You&#8217;ve got accepeted in the &#8220;squadron&#8221;!<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;&#8230;in, approximately, one year your flight training will start&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instant first emotions:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adrenaline rush &#8211; Joy &#8211; Excitement <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thoughts that immediately followed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&#8220;Wait, what? Are you going to become a pilot for real?&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I had a whole year ahead to decide&#8230; and that year was as stressful as it can be&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>What is your true, long-term purpose in life?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" src=\"http:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/What-is-your-true-long-term-purpose-in-life.jpg\" alt=\"What is your true, long-term purpose in life\" class=\"wp-image-77250\" srcset=\"https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/What-is-your-true-long-term-purpose-in-life.jpg 900w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/What-is-your-true-long-term-purpose-in-life-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/What-is-your-true-long-term-purpose-in-life-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/What-is-your-true-long-term-purpose-in-life-270x180.jpg 270w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/What-is-your-true-long-term-purpose-in-life-370x247.jpg 370w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t know about you but, from my mid-20s, this was one of my deepest and most constant thoughts&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And I am not referring to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindtools.com\/pages\/article\/smart-goals.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a S.M.A.R.T. goal<\/a>, like being a manager at an international corporation or getting yourself a luxurious BMW SUV.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am talking about something else, I am talking about your deepest life purpose!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The one that fuels your everyday struggle&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The one that motivates you&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The one that makes you creative, energetic and &#8220;hungry&#8221;!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After much thought, my long-term goal in life is pursuing <strong>Freedom<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Freedom in terms of:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Independency<\/strong><\/li><li><strong>Flexibility<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Without getting into more details, this was the <strong>spark that gave birth<\/strong> to <a href=\"http:\/\/moneyminority.com\/\"><strong>MoneyMinority<\/strong><\/a> in 2018 [my personal blog on self-finance, investments and money management] and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pulse\/bye-hello-stergios-stergiou\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">led me into resigning from my position in&nbsp;Agnotis<\/a> during the summer of 2019 [to pursue my own ventures and luck].<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Ok, Sterg&#8230;&#8221; <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I can hear you say&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;&#8230;your ultimate goal is Freedom. Freedom to do what?&#8221; <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I will explain in second, bear with me&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most of you will agree with me that <strong>time is the most valuable thing we have. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is distributed equally to everyone, no matter how beautiful, or rich, she or he may be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Time, is also, <strong>finite.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thus, you can not create additional time for you, no matter what you do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The only thing you can actively do <strong>is make sure you make the best use of it!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The freedom I am pursuing is strictly connected with my time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>I am pursuing the kind of Freedom that will give me the privilege to invest and spend my time on whatever I think is important in any given period of my life.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Would that be a long term project that is in my mind?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Would that be friends and family that might need my support or help?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not missing important moments of people I love?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taking care of my body and health?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Educating myself?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Probably all of the above, with many more that would come up!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Something I have realized while growing up is that needs, priorities, taste, and people constantly change in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Having the flexibility and the luxury to <strong>consciously choose what I spend my time on is what I am aiming for!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><em>&#8220;Oh, shut up about your dreams and pursuits! Are you going to become a Pilot or not?&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" src=\"http:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Are-you-going-to-become-a-Pilot.jpg\" alt=\"Are you going to become a Pilot or not?\" class=\"wp-image-77252\" srcset=\"https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Are-you-going-to-become-a-Pilot.jpg 900w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Are-you-going-to-become-a-Pilot-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Are-you-going-to-become-a-Pilot-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Are-you-going-to-become-a-Pilot-270x180.jpg 270w, https:\/\/moneyminority.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Are-you-going-to-become-a-Pilot-370x247.jpg 370w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Some weeks ago I have, respectfully, <strong>rejected <\/strong>their offer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Was that a smart choice? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nobody knows&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The thing that counts is that it was <strong>a conscious choice!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>*Conscious Choices* <\/em><\/strong><br><em>Admittedly, one of the greatest things that get to happen more often as you grow up<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Above-average salary, being part of a booming industry (airline industry), a relatively prestigious job, are some benefits nobody can easily ignore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The thing is that becoming a pilot, wouldn&#8217;t be the correct strategic decision taking into consideration that my life purpose is being more independent and flexible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To be honest, it is exactly the <strong>opposite<\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And, as a friend of mine has pointed out in a very sweet way:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><em>&#8220;Think positively: <br>This way you will always get to have your childhood dream!&#8221;<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Thanks Konstantina, I loved it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>My personal 2019 Digest:<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Successfully monetised my personal blog<\/li><li>Quit my 9-5 job<\/li><li>Consciously, rejected a &#8220;lifetime opportunity&#8221; to make my childhood dream come true<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Hell of a year, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Onwards to 2020!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Last note: <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Take care of your friends and loved ones as they are taking care of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Probably, less than half of the&nbsp;decisions above would have taken place without their support and guidance. More than half of the decisions above, wouldn&#8217;t have taken place without.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My love and gratitude to all of them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It was a Monday night and I was mindlessly scrolling through my Instagram Stories like every self respecting 28 year old should. Everything was going smoothly until I came up to something that struck me hard, like a punch straight in the stomach. 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